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Sunday, October 23, 2011

Blogger's Guilt

I realize it's been a long time since I've updated this blog thing, but honestly I have excuses. My first excuse is that I lost a good friend of mine; my next door neighbor. His sudden death has left me feeling sullen and a little down. I'm amazed at how quickly things can change and I feel so sorry for his wife. It's one of those things where I wish there was more I could do to help her but I don't know what it would be. He was a great guy and very patient with me; a perpetual klutz in everything I did with him it seemed. There are just some things that certain people should never do. It's a simple fact.  He tried to take me golfing once (and I'd never been) and I was so bad that it took hours and hours just to play nine holes. Every hole we had to stop and let people play through to avoid mass rioting.  I know I embarrassed the heck out of him but he never said a word. Strangely enough, he never invited me to go golfing with him ever again.

He got a Harley and we went on a couple of rides together. Nothing very far, just half day trips. But it was really fun.  Most recently he helped me paint my motorcycle.  He taught me how to do all the sanding and prep work and stood back and let me do it.  He had a lot more experience with anything to do with cars, or in this case bikes,  than me but he still let me do a lot of the work; and that's the best way to learn.  When it came time to actually apply the coats of the color he gave the paint gun to me on one of the smaller parts and after a few strokes back and forth with the gun he realized that it was gonna be a lot easier for him to actually paint the thing than to go back and fix it after I do it.  And I'm glad he did.  It turned out absolutely perfect.  There are a few very small areas that show we were amateurs who did a paint job in his garage, but only someone who knows what they're looking at would see them.  And I'll never change anything about it because every time I look at the little spots or areas I'll think of him. Every time I see a black Roush Mustang, or any Mustang, I'll think of him. 

I really miss him and I think about him all the time.

Below are a few pictures of our work.  Let me know what you think.





2 comments:

  1. Dad, I miss him too! I think about him often. He was an amazing man. You guys did great on your bike.

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  2. Hey dad you bike looks awesome! every time I see a mustang I think of Kent too...the whole experience has helped me see how applicable the gospel really is, to give perspective to help get through hard times! You also forgot to tell us the second reason for not writing...

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